编辑同志: 我的孩子学习基础差,各门功课都不好,留了级,我很着急。有时真想打他一顿,可又觉得没用。请问,家长应怎样帮助他提高学习成绩? 陈程陈程同志: 您的孩子学习不好,留了级,您很着急,这种心情是可以理解的。但我提醒您千万不要因着急而打骂孩子,恨铁不成钢往往适得其反。孩子留了级容易产生变态心理,讽刺、挖苦会使他产生对抗情绪,如果受到过分刺激还可能产生极端行为。当然对他不努力学习也不能迁就。您还要注意不要当着孩子唉声叹气,表现出无能为力的样子,那样孩子就会无所谓或丧失信心。用什么方法使您的孩子提高学习成绩,这是一个比较复杂的问题,只能从学生具体实际情况出发,因 Editor comrades: My child’s poor learning foundation, all homework is not good, stay level, I am in a hurry. Sometimes I really want to beat him, but feel useless again. Excuse me, how should parents help him to improve their academic performance? Chen Cheng Cheng Cheng: Your child’s learning is poor, stay level, you are in a hurry, this feeling is understandable. But I remind you not to scold the children in an anxious manner, and to say that it is often counterproductive. Child left level prone to abnormal psychology, ironic, sarcastic will make him produce confrontational emotions, if over-stimulation may also produce extreme behavior. Of course, he does not work hard to accommodate him. You also need to be careful not to moan in your children’s sigh, showing the powerless look, so children will indifferent or lose confidence. The ways in which your child can improve their academic performance are more complex issues that can only be based on the actual situation of the student.