女儿快6岁了。望着她那充满童稚气息的脸,心中不免感到一阵阵压抑。现今对儿童进行早期教育已成风气。望子成龙的思想无不渗透于家教处处。凡是家长认为孩子应当学的知识和技能几乎无所不及了。学习成风,固然是好事,我并不想逆流而动。但我更多想到的是女儿应当拥有她自己的世界、自己的选择——尽管这个世界充满了天真、稚气;充满了肥皂泡般斑斓的色彩和梦,但那毕竟是孩子所独有的。如果家长在子女尚年幼时就为其今后的发展定了调子,那么谁敢奢望这种“越俎代庖”的选择一定能得到孩子的理解和响应呢?谁敢保证这种“定向培养”不会破坏孩子纯真的梦幻,使他们失去童年的欢乐呢?世间发生的无数“棒打出才子”的悲剧、闹剧,人们看到、听到的太多了,不免令人心寒……于是,童年发生的许多往事又一一浮现在我的脑海之中。回想我在女儿般大的年龄时,曾有过许多多彩的梦,并曾努力地去追寻……现在想起采那竞是儿时稚 My daughter is almost 6 years old. Looking at her full of childlike face, my heart can not help but feel a burst of depression. It is a trend nowadays to educate children early. Succeeding ideas all permeate tutor everywhere. The knowledge and skills that parents think children should learn are almost ubiquitous. Learning into the wind, of course, is a good thing, I do not want to move counter-current. But what I think about more is that her daughter should have her own world, her own choice - though the world is full of innocence and childishness; full of soapy gorgeous colors and dreams, it is, after all, unique to her children. If parents are children when they are young for the future development of the tune, then who would dare hope that this choice will be able to get the child’s understanding and response? Who would dare to ensure that this “orientation training ”Will not undermine the pure innocence of children, so that they lose the joy of childhood? World countless “ tragedy wit ”tragedy, farce, people see, hear too much, can not help but chilling ... As a result, many of the childhood events occurred in my mind one after another. Think back to my age as a daughter, there have been many colorful dreams, and have tried hard to pursue ... ... now think of that gaming is childish