在故乡,出嫁女须到母亲河中去洗浴,方能被夫家所接纳,这是婚嫁中极为重要的。母亲每每谈到她洗浴时的隆重,眼里总会浮起痴迷般的神往,这令我有些不解。在我的眼里,母亲河既小又没有多少生趣的,她何以会成为每个出嫁女一生中最为辉煌的一刻?又何以会寄予那样多的内容?许多年后,当我理解了母亲的痴迷时,我已为人母,虽未到母亲河中洗浴,但我却从另一个侧面,理解了她所包容的一切内涵,这是每一位母亲的历史,那条淙淙流淌的河水,流逝的不仅只是青春,还包含了母亲们的欢乐、痛 In her hometown, a married woman must go to the mother river to take a bath before she can be accepted by her husband. This is an extremely important part of marriage. Whenever my mother talked about the grandness of her bathing, I was puzzled by my fascination. In my eyes, mother river is small and not much interest, why would she become the most glorious moment of every married woman’s life? And why so much to be placed? Many years later, when I understand the mother’s Obsessed, I have been mothers, although not to the mother river bath, but I from another side, understanding of all her content, which is the history of every mother, that piece of flowing river, passing Not only youth, but also the joy and pain of mothers